Yikes, it seems like the OWs who have the Hs who make a good living and who were good family guys seem to stick around for a long time! I was thinking I would outwait my WH's interest for OW and his tolerance for her drama.

But my tolerance for WH's empty threats of divorce is wearing thin!

Whatnow, are you thinking your H is assuming you will file for D because you are moving forward?? or did you tell him at one point that you would file?

And I totally understand about getting used to the contact when they initiate it. After I told WH to not text me daily to check on how S slept, I really really missed his stupid text "How did S sleep? Is he in a good mood today?" every day!



Last edited by newmama; 05/28/10 09:21 PM.
me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004