NM, you know what is best with your sitch. If you feel like 'warning' him and bringing up the D papers in July in what is best for you then go for it. You sound strong enough to take either road, although i bet i know which you prefer. You mentioned that by DBing, if nothing else, you have become strong and a better you and that is so very true. If your H can not get out of his fog, then maybe this could make him see that you will not wait forever for him to wake up. Just make sure you are doing it because it is what you want and not just to get a reaction. I know when I did it in my sitch it was to get H to say NO i dont want that... and now months later he says he thought i wanted it too. i've had my moments where i thought i should just give him what he wants and thought signing the papers would be best. MWD says we shouldnt make D easy on them... and they should work for it. I dont know... me refusing to sign the papers seems to have helped my sitch the tiniest bit, and was the turning point of our 'friendship' or whatever mess I am in right now. Sorry I know you are getting strong enough to go on, but just wanted to put that out there.
You can certainly still be positive and move on... so if your WAH is not appreciating you for what you are doesnt mean you can not have other in your life who will.
you sound like you are truly enjoying GAL and your time with your son.
Wishing you the best and hoping your H will WAKE UP! before its too late...
