Also, you guys are so right. What I'm doing is not working. He can go ahead and file...he is going to get screwed because now I have all this cheating info on him (I took screen shots of the craigslist ad and the fake emails I sent with his picture).
I can't live like this anymore. I have been such a great wife. There is something wrong with him but I can't fix him. I've tried for the past 3 years and it's only gotten worse. He is throwing away something that was once really wonderful.