he sounds like he's d'ing and knows it, yes. sorry to hear he is still only stuck in this mode. it could change. who knows? i still think he does not know what half-time single fatherhood will really be like. of course, he may not plan to stick it out for fifty percent custody truly after D, but dump more hours on you and be weekend fun dad. who knows? he could also move in another direction. it's still early even if you are sick of it. depends on what all is going on. there's a slim chance maybe. sorry this is going on. nightmare.