I am very calm actually. My concern is my W thinks I am lying. Yes I did something suspect by using a phone other than mine but my W thinks my intentions were something other than what they really were. Now she sees this as unfair and justification to talk to OM.

I want the opportunity to tell her the truth or set the record straight. This misunderstanding has killed what was going so good.

This morning I woke up early and clean the house. Rearranged furniture in living room W said it looks better now then it did. W then asked if I could call the salon for her and I did...I asked if she wanted the dog and I to drop her off she said OK but when we left the dog ended up not going so I drove her. We talked a little about non-R things.

Do I bring up what happened yesterday or not?

Do I ask her were we stand?

I know my W has a great relationship with her father and will take his advice no matter what. If he finds out I contacted OMW/OM he is going to tell her that she does not need this crap ect...


M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10