Ok should I call or email? I think email is better. I have been trying not contacted him at all but I think this is an exception.
It's I guess not technically prositution (he does that too) but the craigslist ad is basically a mutual agreement between two people that want to have sex but I agree about the bank accounts.
Possible email:
Hi WAH,
Since you have chosen to no longer live in our home I would appreciate it if you would not come over unannounced. In the future I ask you contact me before you stop by.
Thanks!
As far as the bank accounts that getes more complicated (I know rob is going to say i'm making excuses). I'm already very overwhelmed and the thought of taking on that process now is causing a lot of anxiety. How does everyone feel if I wait a week for that? I need to get myself together a little more because that is going to be very time consuming. I am okay with telling him not to come over and pack his things.
Also, I know I keep bring the DB coach up but everything has become confusing. she basically told me not to help him along at all in the process and so for whatever reason I am having a lot of panic going against what she recommended. As I said he is VERY LITERALLY - it is kind of ridiculous. I am worried that if I do these things he will take it that I'm not willing to try and work on the marriage.
