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The only person I can depend on is me.


Now we are getting somewhere...So what are you going to do about taking control back of your life?


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James ~

Originally Posted By: james217
The only person I can depend on is me.


Now we are getting somewhere...So what are you going to do about taking control back of your life?



I don't know. I still have the goals set. Alot of it just doesn't fall on me. It's all in the state's hands which is irritating me.


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Originally Posted By: james217
I don't know. I still have the goals set. Alot of it just doesn't fall on me. It's all in the state's hands which is irritating me.


This is all good and well however, some of these are out of your hands so why don't you try to set a couple of minigoals during the day?

Eating healthy (to keep your diabetes in check)
Praying (to keep your spiritual self in check)
Getting enough rest (to keep your mental state in check)

Stop worrying about what tomorrow may bring and just be thankful you have today to look forward to.

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Originally Posted By: Serenity13

Stop worrying about what tomorrow may bring and just be thankful you have today to look forward to.


- words to live by, literally!

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AMEN! Focus on the present.. set goals for the future...

HUGS to you James!


M: 32
H: 34
S:5
D: 3
D: 1
Together 11 years
Married 7
Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off)
ILYBINILWY: 08/09

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You rock my friend! grin

On a sidenote - I can't believe I was ever afraid of you! wink

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What is the saying? The present is called the present because it is a gift.

(I think that is how it goes but hopefully you get the gist of the message!)

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"The clock is running. Make the most of today. Time waits for no man. Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That's why it is called the present."

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Rob~

You rock my friend! grin

On a sidenote - I can't believe I was ever afraid of you! wink

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neither can I!

LOL!

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LOL I think I'm going to surprise alot of db people today.

Today I did something for me. I actually went on a date with someone other than WAW. *gasp*


Today was her bday. We were pretty much each other's first love. That was over 17 years ago.

She was a total knooooooooooooooooockout. I had fun.

I'm starting to like this dating thing. LOL I'm going to go on some more dates.

There's a few other women who are interested in taking me out.

Just got text message stating she had a great time today. That I made her bday special and she enjoyed herself.

I was honest about my sitch with her as well. So it was no lovey dovey stuff. Just dinner and a nice talk.

She just got the Big D recently so we're just enjoying each others company.

She invited me to a party she's having next week as a sort of late bday celebration. I think I may go. don't know yet.

I still have not talked to WAW. 3 weeks of N.C. I didn't not get to see S3 today as planned. But I had to get up and do something.

I can't believe I actually went on a date. LOL


waw 36 (spiritual covenant and common law marriage)me 32
together 13 mos. Bomb dropped march 2nd 2010

children SD (8) S (10) S (3)
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