MLC - standing by my man

[Mila]

Thank you Lotus, Glam, SA, CW, TG, Libby, AJ, MH, Golfgirl, Jack, Mach

I must admit, yet again he got to me, I was pretty upset last night, not much sleep....not so much because what they bought and did, but by the callousness and lack of concern for my feelings by giving me those receipts.

Lotus - I'm thinking this through...I will say something, just have to come up with the best way to approach this.

Glam - that T-shirt would sure look good on my H right now

CW- "b-turd" and "fktard" my new pet names for my sweetie. Who was it that came up with b-turd? Was that you CW? I know Jack gets credit for the second one....I think I'll busy myself with coming up with more, probably more fun then trying to make sense of this mess.

TG - Interesting that couple of you guys think that he is trying to get back at me...for what? for being "dark"?...do you really think that he is that devious? I'm more inclined to believe that it just "doesn't compute" and that he has no clue why I should be upset about it...

If he is trying to get back at me for being "dark" what is he going to gain? Me reacting to it and setting new boundaries? Like asking him to pay cash from now so I don't have to see his private expenditures?

BTW - the expenses that I've listed were paid from our personal joint account, he did buy some small "business expense" stuff through business but I didn't write about those.

Eye of the storm - safe place - I like it...but I still have to run wherever the storm goes so I keep my "safe" position

Libby - you know how this feels

AJ - you also think that he did in on purpose...interesting to get guy's perspective. I'm doing our business and personal accounting. We still have everything joint, and to be honest I don't want to start demanding that we separate our finances, if that request comes from him, I will have to deal with it...What I can suggest to him is to ask him to give me his monthly budget and I will give him a cheque and he can manage it, that way I won't see what he does with it.
But it's hard, we are running two households right now money just flows out like crazy and business is still struggling....

M&H - If I had looked at those receipts right when he gave them to me...I don't know what I would do...scald him with my Starbucks? LOL

Jack - LOL "Chucky Cheese" somehow I have a hard time picturing my H there with his "date". My H is bit of a snob...he likes good food, good wines...and he is definitely trying to impress her with his worldliness...but really what hurts beside him being with her is the way how he rubs it in my face...why?

And if anyone mentions the word "soul-mates" again I will spit at my screen !!!!!

Mach - you made me laugh - what, don't you like romantic comedies? I wonder why they picked this one...needed reassurance from Hollywood that "true love" cannot be broken by time and circumstances?