Need 'How to' on exposure,,,, and balls to do it

[Allen A]

Note : You have to make it clear to her that

a. The affair and her non-commited self are unwelcome in your children's home
b. A commited motehr and wife is welcome to return any time

Otherwise she will tell everyone YOU are throwing her out... you aren't, you are throwing the AFFAIR out ... as long as she clings to it, she goes out with teh garbage