Need 'How to' on exposure,,,, and balls to do it

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Wow, that is one of the things I needed to read, I didn't want to say 'him or me' thinking all the good feelings coming from him, along with the responsibilities I represent would give me little chance at the outcome I want.
I want to be in a committed, and honest relationship. This will not happen as long as you are in an affair with OM, weather it be emotional or physical, it disrespects me, the vows we took, and our family. This marriage doesn’t have room for 3 people. This is about choices, your choices not mine. You need to figure this out soon. If you choose a better life with our family, marriage, and friends, you must end all contact with him, forever, and we will fix our issues together. If you choose to continue with the destruction of our family and marriage that this A is causing, then you will need to find other living arrangements, and I will need to let everyone know.”

Please keep the critiques coming