I am trying to fight temptation today...

Friend txt me this morning told me that female co-worker who is friends with my W came up to him and said "W name, wants to ask you a question"

At that time my W had yet to go up to my friend and ask him that question.

Friend said that female co-worker said that my W text her and also said to her that it is not fair that I talk to OMW and she cannot talk to OM.

W believes I was lying about what happened yesterday and won't believe a word I say.

I was so tempted when W got home from work to bring up the conversation we had yesterday and convince her I was not lying and that any contact I made with OM/OMW ever is not the same as the contact she had with OM.

I held back so far but the urge to bring this all up is eating away at me. I W thinks I am being dishonest which is enabling her to think it's OK for her to be dishonest, an it is not.


M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10