All Have I fully detached enough that any comments or actions that may happen will not bother me.
Don't know if that was a typo but if you reverse "Have I" to "I Have" you can say that to yourself going into the meeting. Just say it over and over again, wrtie it down on a piece of paper and hold it in your hand, whatever it takes.
I struggle with the same thing at times. I don't get in full blown arguments anymore but sometimes I slip up and say something that is less than friendly or is critical.
I also agree with Mach, wear the pink tutu.
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
