None of my/our friends want anything to do with her.
And I hear ya... I know.
I got a bunch of these "cheated on" stories where the W or H for that matter basically "went crazy". The cheating was part of the "attacks". Real damaging stuff.
Lay back, we all know it hurts like hell hopefully something will wake her up cause I know you still have some care in you.
However, she may be building up her 'evil' side - and theres not going to be anything you can do or say to 'it'.