Grace, you are so wise.

I decided to send the following email...

Since you say you will have the divorce paperwork done today, I just want us to be clear on everything. This has never been been what I wanted nor do I want it now. I have asked for the divorce for my self-preservation since you are unable to commit to the marriage. It makes me sad especially knowing that we could be happy together if you could just give me a little more. For what ever reason, you seem to be unwilling or incapable of doing that for me thus leaving me no choice but to move forward without you. I still wish things could be different but I can't change you and I can't give anymore than I already have without getting anything in return.

If there is something that I have said here that isn't true, please let me know.

Otherwise, please let me know when the paperwork is ready for me to come and sign.


It seemed like the right thing to do. I laid it all out there one last time. I don't expect anything to come from it. It was just something I needed to say. I feel okay about it at the moment...I hope it stays that way.