Maybe it's time for me to go over there and let them all know that I am standing and that's that... they seem to need to talk about H every time we meet, but they don't need to, really. Perhaps it's time to change the air and just say - hey, stop thinking about it. This is the new family structure for the immediate future. It may not make sense to you, but this is the way it is.
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Good idea.
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Help, guys, I'm thinking of snooping. I'm dreaming up all sorts of things right now, like H is planning a D as a bomb, etc. I'm sure OW is pushing him on the financial issues, he'd never be doing these things otherwise, they're just not his cup of tea, if you get my drift.
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snooping is like cocaine.
Ever try it?
Ever try and stop?
It is addictive.
Lets say you don't find something...now you HAVE to find something so you keep looking...or worse...you do find something and now you want to find more...
Its like falling off a cliff...really fukcing hard to stop yourself.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
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