The reason i let it go on so long i was doing the LRT and it got me no where.
I did the same thing... tried for months and months.. I love the DR book but if there is an affair going on you would do best to toss that book out the window.. It does a MISERABLE job of helping you when an affair is taking place
Harley, Tupy, Glass, those are infidelity experts and know how to combat an affair..
Sorry TWolf, LRT isn't very effective combatting infidelity... I love DR, but that part of the book I do NOT agree with ...
There are many on this forum in particular who don't follow MWD advice when infidelity is at work
Your wife does feel guilty, that is a good sign...