Are you allowed to wear Men's clothing on casual Friday
Yes we are. However, as a rule "if something is not working try something different" - hence the tutu
LMAO....LMAO...
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
Thanks Serenity - I'm still on your first thread believe it or not. I have several threads that are not in my sig.
I look forward to your comments.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
First off - let me say....I wish you all a very happy weekend!
This weekend W and I will sit down and work on the legal finance stuff that both of us must fill out. This is going to be an interesting test for me. Have I fully detached enough that any comments or actions that may happen will not bother me. Hey...I just realized that my last statement was a projection of a negative event that may not happen - so scratch that. I know that I control how i react to each sitch.
I am also reconsidering staying in the house. From a child rearing perspective it make sense. From a financial perspective it makes sense. From a personal growth perspective - I am not so sure. I know that some of this a fear. Fear of not being able to provide for myself let alone my kids. It is a fear that I know I must face. I understand that every sitch is temporary and that life is dynamic and constantly changing and that each of us must learn to flow with these changes. Damn it is hard.
It is the fear of change that I must face.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
As long as her actions do not affect you you should be fine.
I have to say Eric, that I honestly do not know if I would be married today if me and my wife had been in the same house. My hats off and my heart goes out to those who do that.
Both sitches are tough and both have their problems and their advantages. But for me...knowing me and her, I am not sure I could have done it.
Going dark and GALing MUCH easier for the type of person I am when I am not around the person I am going dark to protect myself from.
By the way...it is OK to strike back at Mach...he'll respect you for it, more so than exposing your belly.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
By the way...it is OK to strike back at Mach...he'll respect you for it, more so than exposing your belly.
Does that mean it's okay for me to tell eric he should ask to borrow Mach's pretty tiara?
Or should I be nice & not mention it...or the pretty pink-glittered fairy wings that would match the tutu so nicely?
Please advise quickly, as I'd hate to step on any toes.
*snort*
eric, my friend, good luck this weekend. Keep your cool. If you start to feel yourself heat up, then try to picture a pretty Shirley Temple, complete with extra cherries and a couple umbrellas.
You can do this.
And I'm with jack on the *in-the-same-house* thing. I tried for a few months to DB with H still here. It did me absolutely no good.
Of course, I wasn't posting here during that time, either. But it just wouldn't work with him right here beside me. I would not be able to work on myself with him constantly in the background.
That's just my thinking though. You have to do what *works* for you.
Last edited by shelbel; 05/28/1005:17 PM.
formerly known as "shelbel" Me 40, stbxh 40 DSs 9, 7 & 3 M9, T10 Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.
