I did take it down again pretty quickly. I unfriended them a long time ago. Her friends I don't think have any idea what she's done. She won't be telling them. But she is stupid enough not to have changed any of her passwords for remote access to anything!
Had more of my lovely colleagues giving me support yesterday, and saying they didn't know how I'd dealt with it all so well, and how hideous they both are.
Almost makes up for the paintball bruises!
Reality is that which, if you don't believe in it, doesn't go away.