Maybe I didn't blow it?

[MrBond]

Stay distant and stop contact with her. Sorry you had to find that out.

[idontunderstand]

Sorry, man. That sucks.

This, after having a good time together. No wonder us rookies end up feeling so lost.

Stay distant and stop contact with her.

Sounds like the best thing to do right now.

Stay strong and good luck.

[konfuseeed]

Thanks.

I can't say I'm surprised... I'm really not at all.

Still hurts.

[james217]

Well, the truth came out today. She has been seeing someone else.


Upon that revelation, I told her I was done, and I told her I would be filing for divorce myself, and I hoped her and him were very happy together.

She tried to backtrack and say they were only "dating" and she was not sleeping with him.

I told her I wasn't born yesterday.

She got very mad, told me I was crazy, then told me how she thinks about me all day everyday.

I told her goodbye.


I feel like a bucket of awful right now.

Dangit Konfused I'm sorry this happened man. I really am. I had hope for you guys. So you're gonna start the D process huh?

It seems like there's always someone else in the picture when WAS leaves or shortly thereafter or even during the M.

I wish I had advice or words of encouragement for you dude. But I really don't.

WAW told you this or you found it out on your own?

really really sorry dude

[konfuseeed]

It doesn't matter anymore.

You know they talk about the LBH gets to a point where they are "done"?

Thats where I am.

I will be filing for divorce and moving on. I was really, really close to moving on anyway, and this just kinda pushed me over the edge there.

I hope her and her boyfriend are very happy together, cause I'm sure they are soulmates.


Heh, I sound bitter huh?

Also, I think it was really classy that her boyfriend dropped her off at my apartment sunday night so she could sleep with me. That was nice of him.

[Vulcanized]

I hope her and her boyfriend are very happy together, cause I'm sure they are soulmates.

Also, I think it was really classy that her boyfriend dropped her off at my apartment sunday night so she could sleep with me. That was nice of him.

Kon, hang in there. I feel the exact same way about my H & his whore.

And you can bet that your W certainly did not tell OM that you two ML.

[james217]

It doesn't matter anymore.

You know they talk about the LBH gets to a point where they are "done"?

Thats where I am.

I will be filing for divorce and moving on. I was really, really close to moving on anyway, and this just kinda pushed me over the edge there.

I hope her and her boyfriend are very happy together, cause I'm sure they are soulmates.


Heh, I sound bitter huh?

Also, I think it was really classy that her boyfriend dropped her off at my apartment sunday night so she could sleep with me. That was nice of him.

wowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww trust me dude I know what it feels like. Just hang in there.

Just remain calm and don't totally lose it like I did dude. hang in there

If you need to vent get it out in here man.

nope Ruined she wouldn't. Probably stated she had to stop by the house to get some items or some other lie.

Konfused you care cause it wouldn't hurt man. But just hang in there.

[Serenity13]

Kon~

I have never posted on your thread before however I was asked to come over here...

I am not familiar with all you have gone through however you did say something that caught my eye...

this just kinda pushed me over the edge there.

Regardless of whether you were "really, really close" to moving on, don't make this decision based on your emotions.

You are hurt and angry and maybe a tad bitter, don't make hardcore decisions when you are in that kind of emotional state...

Wait a few days so you have a chance to work through it all and then make the best decisions possible for you and your life.

I can't count how many times I "was done" these past 16 months. Only to wake up 2 days later and think well maybe I can hang in a little longer...

Now though, now I can say I am truly, honestly, 100 percent done...

Not really, really close...Not kinda...Just done...

Then again my H is just crazy as a madhatter so that has helped a lot.

Hang in there and just think about what I said.

(((((Hugs)))))

[konfuseeed]

Thanks everyone. really.

Been a rough night.

[Serenity13]

(((Kon)))

Hang in there...

It does get better, I promise you that.

Take care of yourself now.