A few questions:
-Should I still pack up WH things and put them by door even though he has not contacted me or said anything about getting his things?

-Should I say anything to WH about coming to the house when I am not home. I was REALLY pissed when I got home yesterday and could tell he had been there, been in our room, watching TV, playing with the dog. He can't have it both ways...I want it to work out but he is contacting other women. When he answered my fake email the time date showed me he answered it when he was at our house. He is coming over and hanging out but no folding laundry, no doing dishes - not cool!

-What about bank account? Should I continue for now to just leave as is? It is going to be a NIGHTMARE if I have to divide things up.

My concerns is about doing too much too quickly.