Thanks so much for the feedback folks. So the spy thing is OK, and it is just the confrontation we do not follow through on?
Very worried about the WAW diagnosis as I hear they are least likely to return and I am still very much in love with my W. So much only those on the board would understand about the far reaching impact of all this, or at least the vision of what was to be that has now been dashed. Family, old age, travel, dreams, and more make it so hard to jump on the GAL/PMA train and put this aside. Hats off to you folks that have pulled it off, as even more than two months later, I am still struggling.
Made it through daughter's graduation without a tear, so I guess that is something.
Keep the advice flowing. It helps knowing you are all out there.