She's pushing him for D because she's insecure - same reason as all these cheaters are. They know how easy it is to walk away and to cheat. The longer he doesn't divorce you the more insecure she'll get.
I agree with Bond. Leave him to it. If he wants to divorce you let him do it, unless you have a stronger desire to divorce him. Sounds like he isn't really enjoying life at the moment.
I did OK at paintballing - there were plenty of people with worse bruises!
We have glorious sunshine. But I'll make sure to not pack only shorts and vest tops!
Looking forwards to meeting you Jac, and having a good old chinwag on Monday.
Saffie - hope your back is much better soon. Thanks for popping in.
Aver - only a week to go and I promise some tales of men in skirts!
The almost old flame is getting even more adventurous with the texts. Am really going to have to sort out having a beer with her as soon as I get back from Scotland.
Reality is that which, if you don't believe in it, doesn't go away.