True is absolutely right - he knew what he was doing. But I have to ask: why are you doing his personal expenses? Isn't now the right time to stop doing things for him? I mean, really? If he wants to leave you, then let him leave you completely. Not just part way. From a guy's perspective, isn't it nice to have somebody you can abuse and she'll still do your laundry while you screw another woman AND you don't have to pay anything in terms of money or other? For that matter, that could be a woman's perspective as well.... Anyhow, I suggest you close that avenue off. He wants to be independent? Ok, be independent and stop expecting you to do things for him. Personal expenses are just that - personal. Handle it big guy! Mila is not her to be your slave or to work for you. That's not a mean thing, that's just business Mila. Take care of it and don't let it take care of you. Besides, you need more free time to work on Mila and daughter. They both need your attention desperately.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
