Can it be...a MLC??

[ericmsant2]

Still

Sorry that you are here. IMO - it really does not matter if it an MLC or WAS. I would not worry about that right now.

First take a step back and breath....your probably very emotional right now and your actions probably show this. FTR - it is normal.

and feels like she has been taking care of me

Is this true - has she?

Pointing this out to her does nothing.

Stop pointing things out to her. She is NOT stupid. She married you right- so she must not be stupid.

She says she has been thinking about this for six months

Also pretty normal. You have kids so she really need to be sure that she was making the right choice. So right now it is very and I want to stress VERY important that you keep your mouth shut around her. Stop trying to talk your way out of it. As hard as it may seem the best action right now is silence. I do not mean be ass - friendly, polite.

I have to tell you she sound very much like my W. If it is MLCm then brace yourself buddy.

I'll be back to you a little later.
Eric