Confused and looking for advice

[hockeymom12]

Thanks Gr8, I truly appreciate you posting on my situation.

So yesterday I had my first session with a DB counsellor, it was awesome, she just reinforced what I was already starting to do and gave me some pointers on how to not be dragged into a fight with H when he tries to provoke me. I had limited contact with H yesterday but it is funny, we communicate through emails and then he call me to reiterate what he has told me in the email, not sure why he does this but maybe just his way of still connecting. He wanted a real estate agent to come out to the house on Saturday and I told him that I was not sure I could get the house in tip top shape by then and his response was, well get the kids to help you, you have all night tonight, to which I replied no I actually don't I am going out tonight, he did not say anything after that! So I went out with friends last night and had a great time.