How do you deal with the HATE?

[beingreal]

BUTs make you special and the exception to something.

BUTs are excuses not to do better.

I am changing BUT I can't.

I want to be happy BUT I can't

I want to have courage BUT I don't

I like the person i see in the mirror BUT I don't

What comes after the BUT is what you need to focus on.

Do you see?

Yep, yep, & yep.

I also learned (the hard way) that if something someone writes to you stings a little, then it's probably true. That's the stuff you have to work on.

The crap that hurts & the stuff after the *buts*. Even if you don't like it.

Especially if you don't like it.

And if you think I'm kidding--go read the first few pages of my thread. My welcome party was...ummm...interesting. But enlightening.