New here ... need some advice.

[gr8 day 2B alive]

Posters here are just giving their own assessment on how they view the situation.
Obviously those who have been here for some time have seen many, mnay scenarios and con relate them to the newbys here.

Some time when your given advice and it's against your feelings or thoughts, you get angry.

Just remember it is a DIFFERENT viewpoint from what you're used to thinking.

Essentially we are all here to help others get through the painfull process. Some make M work, Some don't. but if you stay here long enough and learn, it does matter the outcome of the M. You are in a better place. Time heals ALL pain.