My H and I have been separated 3 months due to his EAs during what definitely appears to be a MLC. (I asked him to move out.) I have recently gone dark as it appears he is still having suspicious activity on his cell phone (though Im no longer monitoring it). How should I respond when he offers to come to the house to do yard work, car work, etc? Is it ok to accept? Sometimes only? Thanks.
M--14 years T--20 years, HS sweethearts dday #1--2002 EA dday #2--2005 bar sl*t dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years
Why do you keep starting new threads each time another question comes up? You have a thread in MLC. Put it on that thread. Stick with one thread and you will get better results.
To answer your question stay dark! If he does work have no expectations.
I need suggestions for wording so am cross posting this. Will some of you please suggest polite DB way(s) to answer the following question from H: "I'm off work and was wanting to come over and (insert chore) for you. I'm bored and don't really have anything to do anyway. And I know it's not something you like to do. Is that ok?".
PLEASE AND THANK YOU
M--14 years T--20 years, HS sweethearts dday #1--2002 EA dday #2--2005 bar sl*t dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
