DSD16 suspects OW, but I haven't told her. I don't know if it's the right thing to do. If it continues, though, I don't know if I can hold it in any longer. She's seeing clues and she's not dumb and I don't, as a rule, lie to the children.
Please do not do this^^^^^^no matter what. Even if she asks.
That truth belongs between her and her dad.
Which brings me to
Originally Posted By: M&H
Maybe it's time for me to go over there and let them all know that I am standing and that's that... they seem to need to talk about H every time we meet, but they don't need to, really.
Your thinking on this is right this is about YOU not what anybody else thinks.
Your decision to stand is YOUR choice.
Not about H and what HE might do.
YOU decide.
Your choice is about who YOU are, YOUR character.
Not to illuminate lack of H's character.
You don't have to explain it to anyone because they could not possibly understand what is inside you because...
It's YOURS.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
