I don't post much on my thread because, well, NOTHING ever happens in my life. Nothing. Never. No where, no how...
Is that sick? That I wish SOMETHING would happen to remind me that yes, he's in MLC? I'm so high energy and to not be DOING something just feels wrong.
Nope, we get up day after day, get ready for work, come home, make dinner, go to bed. Tuesdays are family night, weekends he takes off to be with OW but tells us he's going out with friends. He also has Monday and Thursday nights that he takes off to see her, returning home very early morning the next day.
DSD16 suspects OW, but I haven't told her. I don't know if it's the right thing to do. If it continues, though, I don't know if I can hold it in any longer. She's seeing clues and she's not dumb and I don't, as a rule, lie to the children.
My in-laws want me to make a decision. It's wearing on them. I told them and they understand and even say that they know this will take years to navigate, but they still want me to make a decision. It's hard, I wanted to focus on the family and keep grands connected together, but I don't know if it's in their best interest as it's stressful.
Maybe it's time for me to go over there and let them all know that I am standing and that's that... they seem to need to talk about H every time we meet, but they don't need to, really. Perhaps it's time to change the air and just say - hey, stop thinking about it. This is the new family structure for the immediate future. It may not make sense to you, but this is the way it is.
