Partner left after 9 yrs - 18months on, reunited !

[AliSuddenly]

Ah how true.. we are who were are from what we went through and I am grateful for that as I am happier and more appreciative of things now, I dont sweat the small stuff and I rememner to enjoy the good stuff..

I had the HSG and ended up in hospital as I was in so much pain! It was a bit scary but I am fine now. It led me to push the fertility clinic a bit and they just caled and offered to put us on the list today for free IVF as well as IUI ! I am in shock. We were meant to wait till at least August to just discuss the HSG and becuase I was proactive..they did a case review yesterday on us and within 2 days come back with a decision for IVF!! People wait months and years for a decision like that.

Funny thing is, after me being hospitalised, we decided last night we didnt want anymore medical intervention, so this is just a safety net, the first appointment isnt till September anyway so we will keep trying.

Life keeps rolling on and I do believe these relationships grow back better and stronger and more loving after the shock and grief of separation. Its true, you really dont know the value of what you had till its gone...