I need suggestions for wording so am cross posting this. Will some of you please suggest polite DB way(s) to answer the following question from H: "I'm off work and was wanting to come over and (insert chore) for you. I'm bored and don't really have anything to do anyway. And I know it's not something you like to do. Is that ok?".

PLEASE AND THANK YOU

M--14 years
T--20 years, HS sweethearts
dday #1--2002 EA
dday #2--2005 bar sl*t
dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what
Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years