Mila, First and foremost, thank you my friend, for being there....and sharing your strength.
Second, the insensitivity of the MLCer strikes again. I bet if you bring those receipts up to your H he would have no idea why you are upset. They are so wrapped up in themselves and their own little world that it wouldn't even occur to them. It is the epitome of selfishness and entitlement. This is where your detaching skills come in.
Have you decided whether to say anything to him about it? Would there be any way to enforce a boundary with this if you chose to make one?
We have been given the gift of another day and the choice is ours as to what we make of it.
