And here I am .... H's MLC ....

[PEI]

I had a conversation with guy pal B last night via messenger. He used to date OW in highschool and still lives in the same town. Since H and OW ended it, she's been trying to set up a time to chat with B over coffee. She knows that B and I are aquaintences but apparently doesn't know we've become really good friends.

Anyway, I tell him I'm not going to pry but I do have one question ... If he has definitive information, and not just unsubstantiated rumours, that what I've been told about H and OW ending it is NOT true, will he tell me?

He then tells me that they didn't talk about it alot, but she did tell him that nothing physical happened and she assumes I'll never forgive her (for those who missed it, we had just started to become friends). She was really emotional. He told her that I was a good person and that I deserved honesty and she owed it to me to clear the air with me and she said she didn't think she could get through it without breaking down completely. B says it was guilt. She left her own marriage back in November so who knows where her head is.

Thoughts? I know y'all are gonna 2x4 me but I believe them. I don't think it was a PA and I also think that perhaps H was more emotionally invested than he let on, and perhaps it meant more to him than her. I feel like he was totally in love with how her validation made him feel and maybe she didn't even know how wrapped up he was.

Dunno ....

PEI