DG, stop talking like that. Just stop it right now.
You are not broken, but bruised and his words to you right now are not helping. Do not listen to them! He is damaged. You said it yourself. The OW will not be able to fix him. We talked about it some time ago and what I told you then still applies.
Right now you need to focus on yourself. He will blame you and demonize you and spin stories to you about your kids being happier... that is BS. Kids need their mother... and that is YOU.
NO ONE ELSE can ever take your place. Ever.
Now I know you are hurting... but I want you to think... what are you hurting about? His words? They only have power over you if you allow them to.
I know more than "just a few" women who have been able to fully recover from the wounds you have received. I know you're hurting right now. I know how painful it is for you to feel like a complete failure and I'm here to tell you that you are not. Your feelings are just that... feelings. You are not defined by your feelings. You can fix yourself and heal. In your mind... deep down... if you think about it. Really, really think about it you know that what I'm telling you is true.
You can do this DG, you can. I promise you that. I know it is not easy to turn off the thoughts you're having. Those are normal. However you can change your thoughts.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT
