Right after a hysterectomy is not the time to make such a big decision. Try to get her to go to a Retrouvaille weekend with you. There's info on locations and dates on their website, www.helpourmarriage.org. They can help you. My husband and I lived unhappily together for over 20 years, and in one weekend, our marriage and our lives changed. It can happen to you too. Get her to go with you, even if it is only for the kids. The reason she walks in the door doesn't matter. The important thing is to go and to do it.
