I did talk to someone in her family. Her aunt, whom I get along with, told me that she had told her like a week before the surgery that she was having feelings and wanted to try to make our M work.
My wife said that she thinks those feelings were because I'm the father of her children. I told her that I'm still the father of her children.
I did tell her to not contact my mother in regards to those matters.
However, there really isn't much I can do in terms of taking back control financially. Her parents are funding her, not me, so there's little I can do.
She sent me a text message asking if I could get her any revisions to the papers tonight (instead of Sunday) so that she can get a new copy printed and I could sign it before the holiday.
I'm not signing anything without an attorney anyway, but I'm not about to get into all of that with her. The kids are my main priority and while she's being fair right now as far me seeing them goes, one can never be too certain about the future.
Here's the thing...this is not my wife. What I mean is, her behavior over the past four years in nothing like anything I've ever seen from her. I've known her since we were 15 yrs old. We're now 36. This just doesn't make sense. And since I've never cheated/abused/addicted to drugs etc., there really isn't a solid rhyme or reason behind it. I'm not saying I was the perfect husband by any means and there's certainly things I've had to and still could change, but nothing that could warrant such pent up animosity. I'm just not sure what to do.
