I have to report on tonight's drop off...

WH: arrives, I tell him to be careful of the large box (I ordered S a toy kitchen for his b-day). I greet S and then ask WH if his back is better yet. WH puts S in his crib, then comes back down. I am standing in the entry way. He makes conversation about the toy kitchen. I explain that I will get more accessories as S gets older and that I will be putting it together this weekend but it might take 4-6 hours from what I read. He smiled at me and said he could put it together for me. I said "well, I want to do it this weekend..." (I will ask him for help if I mess it up but I will do it myself first)

Then he said "So you mowed the lawn!" and I said in a joking, light way "Well my landlord has been working his ass off so I figured he didn't have time so I did it." He paused for a second and then laughed-genuinely- and looked at me. I smiled a little. He said "so you remembered what to do?" and I explained that I remembered I needed to prime the pump and found the little button.

Well he used the bathroom and while he was in there I was at the sink, doing some dishes. Evidence of my caramel corn was in the kitchen (and the house smelled great!) but he didn't say anything. He made some conversation about S' cold and his car seat and how much he slept...I do believe the man was LINGERING.
Then he asked me about the pick up time on Saturday. I started thinking out loud, said I would text him, and then said no- make it easy- 4:00 is fine. He smiled at me again.

So it was friendly and then he left and that was that.

And by the way, I wore my pajama bottoms and my Optimus Prime T- shirt (W.W. [optimus prime] D.?) with some caramel on it(oops!)and my hair was messy. Just throwing that in there!

Last edited by newmama; 05/28/10 04:19 AM.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004