feeling a lot of pressure to make so many decisions...big decisions
I am in a similar spot - have to fill out the finacial legal docs - I do have worries about how I will be able to care for myself - let alone my kids (assuming I somehow can convince a judge that I deserve them 50% of the time). THe funny thing is...that Pandora - you can only do the best that you can. THis is a time where we must face these fears. We must go thru them.
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how will i tell my family?
Tell them the truth but do not provide all of the gory details. If you have worked on yourself enough they wil notice the strength in you and not worry.
THe friendly behavoir...similar in my sitch. W has been friendly, nice but not overly social. We need to remember that in there minds they are justified. I personally believe that the friendship is guilt.
Keep the expectation down but be yourself. If you want to be friendy do so but expect nothing.
GOd BLess, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
