So there is no DBing a marriage that has been hit with MLC
I wanted as ask you what DBing is to you but decided not to. DBing is counterintuative is it not? DBing teaches us to stop doing things that do not work - right?
So my answer is you can DB an MLC. It takes a LONG TIME and IMO your chances are very slim. My question to you is this...
Would you be willing to.....give up worrying about your H and the OW..give up trying to change him and control him...commit to opening yourself up to yourself and commit to leaving things in gods hand for the slim chance that your H will return.
Are you willing? if you are - then please...please....listen to me. I and many others have endured great pain...have made ton of mistakes, which we are trying to help you avoid.
Rlay...you are sooooo close...yet soooo far right now.
Stop thing about OW...stop worrying about your H. Start really looking at yourself.
Can you do me a favor and reply back with the reason that your H fell in love with you to begin with. Take a few moments to thing about the positives. Search the threads for my old posts...learn from them.
You can only find the answer to all of your questions....why did he do this? WHy her? Why...WHY>...WHY? All of these answers are really inside of you. THe only way you will answer tehm is to step back from this....let go. God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
