Originally Posted By: rlay
What is the use in "standing" for my M then (if it is dead)?


Only you can say.

Did you read my post that I referenced about standing?

There is an old saying "When the student is ready the teacher will appear"

You are not ready to see this yet because you haven't detached enough.

You are still focused on H and the pain he is causing you.

It is not HIS choice whether this M is dead it is YOURS!!

YOU decide what is going to happen by YOUR choice.

H cannot exert his will in the face of YOUR courage.

It is your choice Rlay. To stand or not. What are YOU about? What is YOUR character? Who do YOU want to be?

I know because I have made the mistake once in my life.

What will it take? What attrocity must be comitted for Rlay to lay down her integrity? Her courage? Her will? Her choice?

To give him that power is YOUR choice my dear.

What will you do?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am