How do I save my marriage to husband in MLC?

[RLay1100]

So there is no DBing a marriage that has been hit with MLC?

My H will more than likely continue to "hate my guts" for a long time to come?

I've simply become nothing to him?

I have felt this was the case since the beginning... ::sigh::

What is the use in "standing" for my M then (if it is dead)?

I really do appreciate all the honest feedback I get. Of course it hurts to know my H is in so much pain and causing so much pain in me and my kids, but I do need to know what I am up against.