Hi CW, yes he will be the one to have to stop the D but you just be still & wait for him to make the move.

NM, "I want my earthling husband (har har!)-- the man I married, to return to me! And based on what I know and believe about him, I am confident he will one day!"

I have always felt the same way & still do even tho he has m'd ow, I still think I will see him again, I could be so wrong. But I like what you said - I did d an alien, he was not himself & I told him that the night he cussed me out. I asked him what happened to the man I married, he didn't have an answer.

CW, you are doing great!
((((HUGS))))