I got a reply thanking me for the email, saying she is sorry all we discuss is splitting up but that is what we are doing. She is sorry if that upsets me and she wants to meet to discuss finalizing financial matters when I get some free time.
It seems messed up that I want to arrange this meeting just to see her and make her face me. But, I think as long as I delay the refi, she will feel that I am holding on to her. Maybe I should finalize this refi with her, then go totally dark until she either comes around or files for D.
