My story isn't posted here no... A large part of the A had its run before I was posting here... I didn't learn how to combat an affair until well into it and a lot of damage had already been done

My wife did have an EA and PA off and on for over two years with OM

I confronted my wife about the A immediately...

There is no ONE "how" to it... I used a variety of approaches reccomended by MWD and experts on the subject as well as some of my own invention...

What worked and what didn't? In some cases it is tough to say...

My wife didn't move out, though it was threatened several times. We are still together now... OM's been gone for 8+ months now...