Hey BD, thanks for stopping by. It's been SOOOOOOOO BUSY today I didn't even have enough time to write WH back. So I'll do that tomorrow. Hopefully Sunday works for him!
I have to go through a couple thoughts I had. Or maybe just one thought, can't remember the other.
If he apologizes, it might actually piss me off. Like if he says "I'm sorry about how I handled our break up. I should have been more thoughtful." I'd want to say, "I hope you feel better because you just said that to console your own guilt." I actually don't even know how to respond. I might just nod and then bring up the car seat (which is going to be the last thing as he walks out the door, ha ha.)
What I would really want to say is, "Oh, I feel so much better. You just loaded this huge cross onto my shoulders and now you've come back to say sorry that you did that. Right before you scurry away again. Thanks."
So at least I'm thinking it through now. Because if it happened in the moment, I'd probably really show my displeasure. That might be okay, though. I can't help but be honest. Even my silence and changing the subject is a "nice" way of saying that it didn't help me at all.
That's all my thoughts for now, going to check threads!
