Hey NM! I read your thread today and you have been doing a lot of thinking! I truly think that if your H doesn't wake up...he will lose the best thing that ever happened to him besides your S!!!!

Thankyou for saying this...

"You would be divorcing your MLC H not the man you married....and from what I have gleaned about you from your posts, you are waaaaaay too valuable for him to give up forever! A sparkly, valuable, one of a kind gem!"

Since H is the one that filed, he will have to be the one to stop it! Time will tell!

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing