CW I know I posted SOOOOO much on my thread today (lots of brain dumping I guess) but have come to this conclusion: IF our husbands (all of us) go through with the divorce, then we are divorcing the alien husbands.

I want my earthling husband (har har!)-- the man I married, to return to me! And based on what I know and believe about him, I am confident he will one day!

I share this on your thread as comfort (hopefully) if you end up divorcing your H before he ends his A. Do you see my point? You would be divorcing your MLC H not the man you married....and from what I have gleaned about you from your posts, you are waaaaaay too valuable for him to give up forever! A sparkly, valuable, one of a kind gem!

Yet I don't see divorce coming soon to you unless you choose it.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004