So now are you buying into "believe nothing they say and half of what they do?" see- they move waaaaaay slower than they talk!
I wore my ring for the first couple of months but asked WH to give me his ring. Then my fingers became too swollen (I was pregnant) so I took it off. I told my close friends and family and made him tell his friends and family. I followed up to make sure he did and shared more truth. I did not tell my boss. I told 2 coworker friends that I trusted to not talk to anyone else but each other (if you tell one person, they need to be able to tell someone else!) What I told everyone is that WH was being stupid, thinking he is in love with the office tramp, but that I believe he is escaping through this affair and will come around and that I wanted to stay married.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004