I completely agree that W is addicted and deluded.
I suppose part of me has given up, meaning I'm trying to move on since she's shown no sign of changing her mind. Another part of me would consider reconciling if she were to show interest.
I don't know how to influence her directly if I'm doing LRT and NC with her. I didn't think trying to reason with her, which I've tried, or talking about our relationship was a good thing according to MWD.
I can expose her affair to more people, but so many people don't know how or want to take an active role in affair busting.
What suggestions do you have so that I'm not extending respect to her affair?